Is Inclusiveness Really Inclusive?

I believe this begs some questions. I think it is important to evaluate our own thoughts and actions to determine if we are doing things correctly or could be better. Am I crazy or are they crazy? Is inclusiveness the goal? I know we are to be kind, and we all want to be nice, so is inclusiveness the thing we are to do? If we are to be inclusive, then how far are we to be inclusive as to not be exclusive to those who are not inclusive? Was Jesus inclusive? Are we as Christians supposed to be inclusive?